I thought girl talk was supposed to clarify, sort through, and expand on man issues. In France I've missed out on this kind of banter for the past 2 years, and now I can say, returning from an evening of presque non-stop man/dating/interpreting of hidden messages chatter, I have never been more confused.?
Tonight I was told that the "girlfriend/boyfriend" thing works for guys, because they can date a woman for years and never consider marrying her, but it doesn't work for women. Women apparently don't have?monogamous?sexual relationships without attachment and a goal of commitment. The open-ended intimacy doesn't work with us. So! What is the solution according to my gal pals? No committed relationships until marriage:?in other words,?no exclusivity until someone is willing to offer commitment in exchange.?
Apparently?it's ok to stop having sex with other people, but dating should remain open until the one "steps up" (I prefer sacks up) and is ready to give you commitment in exchange for ?your fidelity and exclusivity. (Which, as the theory goes, would work since women can't give that without getting attached.)
This tends to go against my current belief system which tells me good love and good relationships come from monogamy and intimacy, so go for it, but my?attached?and insecure side wonders if I'm doing it all wrong. ?
Is it ok to give it all? Or are we giving it all to soon??
Source: http://ifightforthephoque.blogspot.com/2012/09/exclusivity-before-commitment.html
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